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Welcome Boomers

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

In 2009 the big news was every 8 seconds a Boomer turns 50. That meant more than 10,000 people a day.

Today the news is a bit different: The first Boomers are turning 65, the “official” transition into senior status.

What does this mean for Boomers and Seniors?

In some ways they’ll both benefit, and both have some work to do.

Benefits include having a fair number of seniors to show the way, from how to figure out Social Security to how to stay healthy and keep on love’n.

The not so good news is that many Boomers are not as healthy as the average Senior, which can have all kinds of ramifications from more knees that need to be “done” to not as much action in the bedroom.

So, welcome to Satisfying Senior Sex, Boomers. THE web site with Read More→

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For Great Senior Sex Reawaken Your Love’n Feelings

Tuesday, December 28th, 2010

One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.

And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by Read More→

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Give the Gift of Love’n

Friday, December 24th, 2010

One of the most important gifts you can give your honey for the holidays is love and affection.

I routinely get notes from both men and women who say some version of

“I really love him/her, and I am pretty sure he/she loves me, but…”

Then they all go on to talk about how little their honey touches them, is affectionate, or has stopped making love with them. Some even talk about how their own advances are dismissed or ignored.

The really hard part of this, the reasons given for avoiding intimacy are often some version of we’re too old. Or, I just don’t have it in me any more.

If this is you, if this is your honey…give the best gift of all for this holiday season: tell them and show them you love them. Help them understand you aren’t too old for affection, hugging, kissing and even, dare I suggest, a little more action in the bedroom.

Stop avoiding the subject. You’ll be glad you did.

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For More Satisfying Senior Sex Put Your Love Into Action

Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

Too often we want to feel our way into acting. But with love, romance, sex it isn’t very efficient. Feelings are too transitory and dependent on what’s happening now in our internal world.

Sad case: a male friend confided in me that his wife was getting more and more Read More→

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Friday Tips: Try a Little Necking

Friday, December 10th, 2010

One of the sensuous, quasi-sexual activities that falls off the radar of many couples, younger and older is necking. When were younger, or had younger children, there often didn’t seem to be time for intimacy that didn’t include intercourse.

Now, as we’ve gotten older, sometimes struggling with health issues, or even just fatigue, many couples find they just don’t have the energy for making love as often as they did when they were younger.

If this is what is going on at your house, try a little necking for a change. You know, that old skill that has become almost extinct. Kids don’t do it much any more, but us old fogeys remember how it was the only thing we were supposed to do.  And only with clothes on and nothing rumpled so our parents wouldn’t realize what we’d be doing.

Now for sure you are old enough. You might even think about getting bold and get to second or even third base.

Your mother won’t know what you’ve been up to this time!

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