Sex always starts with emotions. Especially satisfying senior sex.
Whether the emotion is lust or love, a quick response to a stranger on the street, or seeing your favorite movie star on full screen and technicolor, it all starts Read More→
Sphere: Related ContentEinstein is one of my favorite historical figures. I have often had a conversation in my head with him when faced with a very vexing situation. Want to see how he would figure it out.
So, Einstein quotes are always a treat.
Especially this one on marriage:
“Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.”
Take a few minutes today to ponder this with your sweetheart. Is he right? Wrong? Somewhere in between?
How have you each changed?
What effect has this had on your relationship…especially your love’n?
Be gentle with yourself.
And each other.
Sphere: Related ContentOne of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.
And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by Read More→
Sphere: Related ContentOne of the most important gifts you can give your honey for the holidays is love and affection.
I routinely get notes from both men and women who say some version of
“I really love him/her, and I am pretty sure he/she loves me, but…”
Then they all go on to talk about how little their honey touches them, is affectionate, or has stopped making love with them. Some even talk about how their own advances are dismissed or ignored.
The really hard part of this, the reasons given for avoiding intimacy are often some version of we’re too old. Or, I just don’t have it in me any more.
If this is you, if this is your honey…give the best gift of all for this holiday season: tell them and show them you love them. Help them understand you aren’t too old for affection, hugging, kissing and even, dare I suggest, a little more action in the bedroom.
Stop avoiding the subject. You’ll be glad you did.
Sphere: Related ContentToo often we want to feel our way into acting. But with love, romance, sex it isn’t very efficient. Feelings are too transitory and dependent on what’s happening now in our internal world.
Sad case: a male friend confided in me that his wife was getting more and more Read More→
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