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Are You Letting Your Past Sabotage Your Satisfying Senior Sex

Tuesday, December 7th, 2010

One of the questions I’m often asked is some version of “Dr. Pat, what can I do so the sexual abuse I experienced as a little kid doesn’t still get in the way of the intimacy I want with my honey?”

It’s not uncommon to start to uncover an awareness of, or reawaken feelings about, past traumas, especially sexual trauma or abuse, when you are working making things better.

Does this mean it’s time to Read More→

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Are You one of Those Women who Thinks She’s too Old to Have Her First Orgasm?

Sunday, April 5th, 2009

Women’s orgasms have been the butt of comics, trashy movies, and even the press.

It’s a common belief that men give their women orgasms, and all orgasms stop with menopause.

Neither of those beliefs are true.  Yet many women, especially older women who have already been through menopause are sure that their time for orgasms are over. Or, if you are one of those women who have never had an orgasm, you may well be sure you never will.

Again, not true. Read More→

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