Sex always starts with emotions. Especially satisfying senior sex.
Whether the emotion is lust or love, a quick response to a stranger on the street, or seeing your favorite movie star on full screen and technicolor, it all starts with emotion.
Especially when you are trying to rekindle the desire that has been in your relationship.
Emotional responses trigger physical responses.
Your emotional response triggers the delicate chemical process that starts your arousal pattern.
Without desire…even those famous pills won’t work. You can take one, but if you don’t feel turned on…it won’t do its job and get you ready.
Desire is a necessity,for one of you at least. Then your job to seduce your loved one to join you on the journey.
But first, there has be arousal.
Arousal is when you start seeing the physical changes of sexual excitation.
Aroused men will start to get an erection. Their penis will engorge with blood, as their hearts beat stronger and faster, pumping away to and through the arteries in their penis.
Women will start to lubricate…and their vaginal opening will soften and get ready to receive their lover’s penis.
Both men and women will become restless and agitated, brimming with the exitation of desire.
Of course you can hasten this along with loving caresses, touching and stimulating each other’s favorite places.
And you take your time. One landmark study showed conclusively that the major change men can make in helping their woman have orgasms every time is taking longer with foreplay. Directly stimulating their partner’s genitals, especially their clitoris.
Not the 3-8 seconds usually metered out, but minutes. Like five minutes. Am I suggesting you check the clock? Absolutely! Check the clock going in and monitor your time on task. You’ll love it when she thanks you for the best sex of her life.
This challenges women to explore and find the best ways their man likes to be caressed and stimulated. Making love is not a spectator sport. Learn and share with each other to find new ways of expressing your love, rather than just relying on the same old same old.
Don’t be afraid if your arousal pattern waxes and wanes as you are loving on one another.
The biggest myth around is if you lose your erection while making love, it is all over. You can’t have another one for hours if not a day or so.
Not so.
You’re confusing erections with ejaculation. You can achieve and let go several erections during the same lovemaking session. You just can’t panic when you do or keep looking down to see if it’s up. Look down to see if it’s down and it goes down.
One of the best ways to help you get that erection back up is to tune into your honey’s arousal see how she’s enjoying your loving and how good she feels. Go ahead, use her arousal and enjoyment to help you stay in the moment of your own arousal and enjoyment.
It’s one more way of using emotion to help you have some of the best senior sex of your life. Feelings make a huge difference.
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